



20 Oct. 2010
Okay or O que? I never realized how much I use the English word “okay” until now where when I say okay, they think I’m saying “o que?” Imagine walking around the US and responding with “what” for so many things!
“Here’s the broom.” “What.”
“You can eat the banana.” “What”
“Would you like some tea?” “What.”
“It’s time to take a bath.” “What.”
I can only imagine what my family is thinking: “Does she not understand anything?” “Her Portuguese sucks and it’s been 5 weeks here!” “Americans must not know anything!” “Where is her common sense?”
Onto my actual learning and using of Portuguese…it is coming along. As time goes by, I’m able to have more actual conversations with my family besides for the, “Good day. How are you? I’m good, thanks.” We’ve talked about some differences and similarities between Mozambique and America, about AIDS (some), theft (in Mozambique and in America), what we are scared of (me= big spiders, mama= frogs), about my family at home some, that I don’t want kids of my own (they have a difficult time understanding this concept…but we laugh every time they bring it up), and what I’m going to do after these 2 years. They are definitely patient and that helps a lot because they’ll repeat many times or explain something in a new way.
I have definitely made them laugh heartily because of something I have said or done in regards to language. I still don’t really know why on some, but I will laugh with them also. Sometimes I realize it right after I said it…For instance, I call my mom here mama, which is the endearing term to call your mom here. But, the word for boob is mama (accent on the first syllable). It’s hard to be sure to say mom versus boob…
Also, coco (accent on first syllable) is coconut and coco (accent on second syllable) is poop. But make sure you don’t say you like to eat poop!
16 Oct. 2010
“Here comes the bride…all dressed in…” red
Weddings, obviously can differ from country to country, culture to culture, religions to religions. Differences in what is work, what the women do, what the men do, the dancing, the presents, the cake, etc. Within a country, weddings can differ. Just look at the USA. A wedding in the south differs from a wedding in the west. And even more differences occur from religion to religion. My idea of a good wedding: a mix of all the best things from all the different weddings. Of course, me plus a wedding means I have to get married. Remember, we are talking about me, Mandy Nurrenbern.
Anyways, the answer to your unspoken (or spoken for all I know) question is yes, I did go to a Mozambican traditional wedding, and yes, I am going to talk about it here.
I asked my mama here what I should wear and she told me just pants and a t-shirt, no big deal. And, of course, she was right. But at the wedding/ceremony (all really one thing) we (the women) received capulani’s (surangs) that we wore over our pants. They make an outfit bonita (pretty).
I’m not going to lie, it definitely started off slow. I sat in a lawn chair in the yard under the shade. As the sun moved throughout the day, we moved throughout the day to stay under the shade. The bride and groom at this point were in a room with their parents , eating and probably saying the “I do’s”. At one point, they walked out together and marched around the guests and got pictures taken. (Pictures are serious…no smiling). During this time there was a lot of chanting and dancing around the bride and groom Chanting was out of the question for me since my language skills are low, but I did pick up the dancing…
Dancing is definitely a big thing as the day/night went on. There was some dancing I knew and some Mozambican style, but it’s too hard to describe here. I did love that the women coule dance and did dance versus the traditional Indian wedding where the women didn’t dance. They were amazed I could get low with the rest of them!
The wedding gifts are individually given to the bride (and groom). We did small dance steps with a chant as we went up and presented a gift each to the bride. The gifts were all very practical to life here in Mozambique. Cups, a tray, fleece blankets, a couple of capulani’s, a pilao (giant mortar and pestel thing), etc. After presenting the gifts, we got in a circle and one person would go in the middle and dance to the chant and then go out and someone new would go in. Surprisingly, I did not go in the middle… Why? Maybe it was the intimidation of the Portuguese.
The wedding cake: It was a 10 tiered cake, huge, tons of sweet icing, 2 dolls on top representing bride and groom…NO! It was simple, nice, easy. It was a small cake with simple icing. Not everyone at the wedding received a piece of cake because of the size, but everyone did receive a bite of cake. They cut the cake into bite size pieces and put in a bowl. The bride and groom walk around with the bowl and we grab a bite of cake. Simple, nice, easy.
I did get my camera out and it was a hit. Why? Because it’s a digital and the picture is seen right after the picture is taken. They wanted a dancing picture; they wanted me to sit at the DJ chair, hold a CD case and get a picture (with the kids surrounding me). I think this will be a good reminder to me to take pictures! J
A little side not here: I saw 2 men chase down one of the goats around. Not too much after that, I saw that same goat hanging by it’s feet from a tree being skinned by the 2 men. Then for dinner, I had goat.
The End.
PS – My style of dancing fits in with Mozambique better than in the US. Another sign this my place to be…Africa…my motherland….:)
6 Oct 2010
“Rubber Ducky, you’re the one. You make bath time just so fun!”
How many baths do you take in one day? (Normally) How many baths do you think Mozambicans take? I go from living in the woods in Montana getting a shower once every 2 weeks to living in Mozambique where I take 2 baths every day. My family here would prefer I take 3…
No, it’s not just me and that I stink! (I would hope I’m not that bad) The culture here is to take a bath before each meal. And yes, it’s a bath… a bucket bath. No running water. You put water in a basin, use a can or pitcher and dump the water on yourself. Then you soap up and rinse off. I actually only took one bath this past Sunday, and I felt like something was wrong… J
So, when I say no running water, I mean no running water for the toilet, shower, sink, kitchen…for nothing. Every other day we go fetch water from nearby. We have 2 water drums in our house, one in the kitchen and on in the bathroom. It’s pretty easy to get used to. The toilet is a manual flush at my house. By manual, I mean you put a good amount of water in a bucket, you take that water and you dump the water in the toilet and it flushes. Might have to do it a couple times for the major ones…J
I guess it’s time to talk about my house and family and what I’m actually doing right now here in Mozambique besides for bathing. Until the first of December, I am in training staying with a host family in Namaacha (just outside of Maputo). It’s a really cute house and a great family. The house is made of stones and cement and reminds me of Bedrock. (No, I do not live with the Flintstones). Our kitchen is incredibly small; it has a propane stove and a couple basins to do the dishes. It barely fits my mama and I. In the backyard we have a garden, and we have a veranda in the front. I have 2 brothers here. Ada, who is 7, and Isly, who is 3. My papa is only home about once a month because he actually teaches English in another city. (I’ll explain how the education thing works on a later date.) My papa is actually 19 days younger than me… but I still call him papa… My mama is 29 and really pretty. Oh yeah, my papa is tall…taller than me. J I have an avo (grandma) that lives with us also. She is my papa’s mother. I feel bad because I get a room to myself and all of them share one room… a requirement made by Peace Corps to the families when the families were interviewed and chosen to host us.
During these 10 weeks, I am learning Portuguese… lots and lots of Portuguese. Here’s an awkward story of mine: So, Peace Corps brought us up to Namaacha on a Saturday morning, but our first class wasn’t until Monday. That means we all spent the whole weekend with a family we just met and they don’t speak English and I don’t speak Portuguese. Charades is a fun game… J
It’s been awesome to have kids at my house. And they love to dance! And they love to see me try to dance the Mozambican style. Every time I come home, Isly yells for me, “Mana Amanda. Mana Amanda!” (which means Big Sister Amanda). Ada one day was dancing in the house and kind of making the music noises for “Smooth Criminal” by Michael Jackson. I got my Ipod out and my little speakers and played the song. His eyes lit up and for the next hour, Ada and Isly danced like Michael Jackson, with the whole crotch grab and everything (you’ll have to see the video… Isly’s crotch grab include grabbing the top of his pant and just pulling them up!) J
Life in Mozambique has definitely been fun. There are a lot of different norms, but I feel good here. Portuguese is coming along…slowly. I’ve actually had some deeper conversations with my family here. They don’t quite understand why I don’t want kids or my own and that being an aunt is great… J My mama continues to say “when you have kids…”blah blah blah
Overall, I’m loving it so far. I’m soaking everything in, the sun, the people, the experience.
Here is Zach. He always had a smile it seemed. He was the 'son' of the 'family.' And ended up 'going to college' on the 3rd work of week out there.
Quinn, the oldest youth of the crew. I felt like she was another leader with us. She knew when to be goofy and silly and when to be serious and do the work. She was awesome to have with us the whole time. She was also the 'mother and wife' of the 'family'.
Nick, the 'annoying cousin' in the family. He knew his stuff outside. He started off as our Mountain Man, but we met a true Mountain Man during the 3rd week down in the Swans, so he became our Mountain Lad. Still pretty awesome!
Julian, the crazy kid who could make anybody laugh. He was the 'husband' and 'father' in the family. He definitely brought something to our crew that was unforgettable.
WEEK 2: Swan Crest 100 We brushed part of the trail that was used for this 100 mile running race. People who can run 100 miles consecutively are crazy in my opinion... :) Perhaps I'll run one one day. :) Instead of being constantly surrounded by a million mosquitoes this week, we had flies. Oh, boy. Got to love the flies!!! :) It was a pretty good week this week. It had it's up and downs. One thing this crew is also great at, just like in the first crew also, we love playing Ninja! Quinn even added more to this Ninja...using our feet, so it's elimination by 4! That was crazy!
We stayed in West Glacier, but saw all of Glacier this week. Our first day we went to Polebridge. The next 3 days after that we went to East Glacier (St. Mary's, Many Glacier, Two Medicine). They would show us what we needed to collect and we would wonder through the prairies and collect the seed. (I hope I didn't get any of them mixed up!) It was a very relaxing last week, but a good one. We got to even drive through Logan's Pass which is an amazing drive!
This is in Many Glacier. There was a grizzly siting here on this day, so I finally got to see a grizzly bear! (from a distance)
The other youth crew happened to be working in Many Glacier that week and we ran into them. So, we had lunch together. That was pretty neat to run into them again. Our crews really got along with each other. One weekend we all hung out and played rugby tag and Ninja. Good times.
On our way to the 'surprise' (buying them ice cream) we say a black bear in the woods. It didn't really care that we were there. There were a lot of people watching it. I think it was a local bear to the camp area in Agpar (West Glacier campground).
Skipping rocks on Lake McDonald, synchronized style. (Julian and Nick)
Overall, this was a great summer and I'm going to miss being out in Glacier and all the gorgeous places in Montana, but now it's on to my next adventure, MOZAMBIQUE!!!!